We deceive ourselves that the opinion of others means nothing to us, but we ourselves crave universal approval. Many of us struggle with a good girl complex all our lives, putting a lot of things on our shoulders instead of just saying no. We feel like we’ll instantly lose favour. At the same time, some people are so afraid of getting rejected that they are ready to put their own dreams on the back burner. We tell you how to get rid of the fear of rejection and teach yourself to say ‘no’.
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You’re not a dessert to please everyone. Pay attention to how bad it looks from the outside to be a suck-up who goes out of their way to please everyone. Remember that you are a human being, and you too have the right to likes and dislikes.
Remember your interests
Sometimes there is a substitution of goals on the way to your dreams. You may think that some position will bring you freedom and prosperity, but in reality it will only become a shackle and turn your world into a chore. Know exactly what you are doing it for. Think about it and decide whether you want to work as an errand girl, fetching coffee for a negligent boss, or whether you should take a risk and create your own business with a team of like-minded people.
